When I met my husband, we were heading down the path of just living in mortal sin. You know, the modern living arrangement of living together. However, as our relationship grew, so did our minds. At first, we wanted just to live together and hopefully, eventually we would get to having a family. But that didn’t happen.
On a visit to my regular physician, I introduced her to my new live-in co-sinner. After the normal exam, she looked at the both of us and said, “You two, are you planning on getting married?” Mind you I hadn’t mentioned how long we had actually know each other. And like two people who were indifferent about the subject, just shrugged. She looked at us both with that – you better know by now – looks and said, “Well, if that’s the case, then you two need to forget about big weddings and start on kids ASAP!” HUH? WHAT? “You two realize as you get older, it will be harder? And further more, it gets riskier.”
Well, needless to say, we took her advice and went to work. Maybe work isn’t exactly what we did, but for a good three months we had a very good time!
Welcome! Baby boy #1!
Wilfredo K was born 6lbs. 15oz. Ten fingers, ten toes. Beautiful and I was hopelessly in love.
Wait a few more years and Baby boy #2 arrived. Robert K. Born 7lb 15oz. Ten fingers, ten toes. Beautiful and I was hopelessly in love.
That was nearly 10 and 7 years ago. Time flies, and now I am 50. No one told me at this age, it would be harder on my body and that losing all that baby weight would take decades. It’s still a learn-as-you-go process but sometimes I really wish that motherhood came with instructions, how-to’s, and FAQs. Because what no one tells you – is a lot.
- They never tell you, you’ll never pee the same without surgery. Invest in feminine leakage pads, now!
- The diet you used in your 30’s is useless post baby. Your metabolism has become nothing.
- Sleeping will no long exist. You will lead a cat-like existence of napping and moving at sudden noises.
- Your hair will go into phases of shock and unmanageable mattes.
- Your appetite will double, even triple, depending on how hungry everyone else is.
- Exercise when you can. You’ll be very busy with the family you wanted.
- Sex? Either, you’re too tired, he’s too tired, or the kids are awake.
- That your children will take up 99.9% of your thoughts.
- Sometimes, having a Snicker is all you’ll have time for.
- Buy pre-made salads, you’re going to need them.
- Take a multi-vitamin(consult your physician).
- Your kids are the mirror image of you. Make sure they look good.
- You’ll need a sound proof room. All those cuss words can be heard outside the door.
- Put good things into your body! It’s the only vehicle you have to get you through an 18 hour work day.
- That some of the parents in your kid’s school will be some of the closest friends you’ll have.
- You’ll be obsessed with what schools you should send them to.
- That your idea of a vacation includes a mouse, a minion, and legos.
- You’ll take only 1 vacation p/year.
- Remodeling will be a vacation.
- If this were a paying job, no one could pay the fee.
Do you wish that someone told you what motherhood would be like? To tell you the in’s and out’s giving you shortcuts, advice, and the nitty-gritty of life with kids at an older age? Let me know what you wished you knew!